Seriously people, this is something that I have to clear up once and for all. A man and a woman cannot be "just friends." There will always be at least one person in that relationship will have at least dirty, if not romantic thoughts about the other person.
I have created a list proving this impossibility. This list contains a set of questions. If you can answer these 10 questions all with an honest "no," then you are probably lying. Just be honest with yourself, it does not mean that your relationship with your "friend" has to change, many people continue this charade for a life time. Just know that it is how it is.
And so the questions begin:
1) Have you ever had a sexual thought of any kind about this person?
2) Has this person ever had any sexual thoughts about you?
3) Have you ever been inexplicably jealous of this person's love interest?
4) Have you ever thought " My 'friend' would never do this to a girl/guy" in reference to your current relationship?
5) Have you ever thought "I would never do that to a girl/guy" in reference to your "friend's" relationship.
6) Have you ever wanted your friend to find you attractive?
7) Has your friend ever seemed jealous of your current relationship?
8)Is your relationship with your "friend" very physical? (ie cuddling, play fighting)
9)do you think of your "friend" throughout the day? (he/she would love this, think its funny)
10)(drum roll) When you first met, did you think of this person as a member of the opposite sex? (aka. he is kinda cute, how is my makeup?)
There you have it folks. No one is going to judge you. Just don't lie to yourself. Human beings are sexual creatures, its ok. Just don't act on it in the wrong way. And please, don't listen to strippers.
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